3 Tips for good communication between a foreign fiance and U.S. ...

Good communication is important for any relationship. It?s especially important in a budding dating relationship as it often sets the foundation for how the couple continues to communicate and relate to one another. And it?s critical in a cross-cultural relationship because there are so many opportunities for misunderstanding and for one side to take offense.

Here are three tips to enhance communication with your loved one.

1. Listen. Ok, this is a tough one for me personally. But I put it first because I think it?s the most important. By listening and not interrupting the other person, it allows them to freely articulate?her?thoughts. It also shows respect for the other which is an important component of a health relationship, Of course, actively listening is easier said than done especially if one is more talkative than the other.

2. Don?t Interrupt. Yikes, also another tough one for me. Refraining from interrupting allows the person to complete his/her thoughts and also keeps us from jumping the gun. Don?t make assumptions about what the person is going to say. Let the person complete her thoughts. Understand what the point is, and then you can address it. It?s more efficient, decreases the chances of miscommunication and getting offended.

3. Use tools: this is especially important if his or her English language skills are limited. Email, chat or text to communicate as most people have better reading comprehension than listening comprehension. Reading what is written gives the recipient a chance to go over what discussed several times before responding which promotes better communication. It is also helpful to show proof of a bona fide relationship between the US citizen and the foreign fianc?e before the USCIS adjudicator.

If you?re not sure how to put together a K1 fiance visa application or simply don?t have the time or want to bother with the technicalities, contact me. I?ve experience dating back to 1997 and would be happy to help reunite you and your loved one.

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